LIST OF
SCRIPTURES - Look these up at your
convenience; they illustrate different points in the
lesson:
Ex. 20:4 & (Do
not make any graven images; Aaron makes a golden calf
-
32:1-25 Moses
destroys it.)
Psalm 34:1 (I will
bless and praise the Lord at all times continually.)
Matthew 5:32 (Do not
divorce your wife except for adultery.)
John 8:34 (If you
commit sin, you are the servant of sin.)
Rom. 7:8; 8:7; (Is
the law sin? Carnal mind is enmity; cast off works of
13:12; 14:13
darkness; do not place a stumbling block.)
I Cor. 1:23; 5:1;
(Christ crucified; father's wife; unrighteous;
liberty;
6:9; 8:9; 9:27;
subjection, idolaters; temptation; tongues.)
10:5-8, 13; 14:14
II Cor. 5:16-17;
(New creature; separate; control thoughts, church is
6:17; 10:5; 12:21
reproved.)
Eph. 2:1-2; 4:29
(Quickened in God; communication corrupt; works of
darkness;
5:11, 19, 26
sanctify and cleanse.)
Phil. 4:8 (Think on
these things.)
Col. 3:5, 8 (Mortify
your members; put off all these sins.)
I Thes. 4:5, 11;
(Lust of concupiscence; study to be quiet, pray
without
5:17 ceasing.) I
Tim. 5:22 (Keep thyself pure from sins.)
II Tim. 2:22; (Flee
youthful lusts; lovers of pleasure more than God;
3:4, 6 God; lead
captive silly women with divers lusts.)
Hebrews 13:4
(Marriage is honorable and bed undefiled.)
Titus 2:3-5 (Old
women to teach young women.)
James 1:2-4; 4:7
(Trying of your faith works patience; submit to God
then resist the devil.)
John 1:9, 2:10,
(Confess our sins: love our brothers; you have
overcome
14 the wicked one.)
Jude 18-20 (Mockers,
sensual, ungodly lusts; praying in the Holy Ghost.)
PREFACE
- This is a strong lesson but there is nothing to be
embarrassed about. The Bible tells it like it is - sin
is sin. You also need to learn how demons talk and
think. Sex according to God is pure, uplifting and
clean; sex according to Satan is perverted, degraded
and filthy. Children and adults need to learn about
the right and wrong ways of sex. This lesson is for
pastors, ministers and those who have committed sexual
sin before or after marriage. Do you know what the
Bible says about sexual sin? Have you committed any
sexual sin in your life? Do you know the long reaching
results of your actions? Do you know you cursed your
children?
HOW WE GET
CAUGHT IN SEXUAL TRAPS - I am going to
briefly discuss some of the traps Satan has set for us
in the sexual area which will hold not only us but
generations of our descendents in its' bondage. It
will not be a pretty picture but perhaps you will see
yourself and your children in these traps. There is
good news for all Christians who desire to stop the
effects of past sins. Jesus was made accursed for us,
therefore we may break the curses, call out demons and
watch very carefully for Satan's tricks in the sexual
area.
The number one
reason we have found for the sinful sexual activity of
our day is that proper love relationships are not
shown in the home. In many homes, even Christian
homes, the proper relationships are not lived.
Children need to see and feel the love between parents
and themselves. Many people do not love their
children. Many who do may not be able to show love
properly to the children due to the problems they have
with rejection themselves. Love is constant; it does
not turn off when you don't get your way or when you
fail or when someone you love fails. Please read and
study II Tim. 3:1-5.
The next reason (one
which grows out of number one) is rejection. A
rejected person is one who is always looking for
someone to love them without reservation. Many
substitute lust (which tries to grab for itself) in
place of love (which is caring, giving and
protecting). Isa. 53:3, He was despised and rejected
of men (all men). Rejection is a tool Satan uses on
all of us. He used it repeatedly on Jesus. We have
come to believe it is the first deep wound a person
receives and ,if not healed, provides the doorway for
demons to enter.
Much of the sexual
activity of today is rejected people trying to feel
loved. They have just fallen for one of Satan's
tricks. Sexual activity is not love; it is just sex.
Rejection causes us not to respect ourselves therefore
we do not respect others nor their rights.
Reason number three
is curses playing out their legal hold. When you or
one of your direct line ancestors commits a sexual sin
which carries a curse, demons which accompany that
curse will follow all the descendents and try to bring
each one into sexual sin. The demons have a right to
do this until the curse runs out provided no one else
adds to the curse or someone learns of breaking the
curses and the casting out of the demons which
accompany the curse. The purpose of this is to destroy
whole family lines; I have seen this happen (King
David's family and Saul's family).
But God (two of the
loveliest words in the Bible) made a way out of this
mess. It will not be easy; it will require diligence
which we are commanded to have and to practice (2 Pet.
3:14, Ex. 15:26, Heb. 11:6, etc.)
If you want to get
some idea how important God considers our relationship
to family members and other people, just consider
this. In Exodus 20 God says we will be cursed for
three and four generations for worshiping other gods,
but in Deut. 23 he says we will be cursed for ten
generations for creating a bastard or for incest. A
bastard is one conceived out of wedlock. Incest is sex
with someone you are kin to.
Here are some curses
which you may have started or which may have been
handed to you: Lev. 20:13 - homosexuals (male or
female) often come from homes where there is an Ahab
(dominated) father and a Jezebel (dominate) mother.
They also come from homes where one or both parents
may be closet homosexuals. Homosexuality is perverse,
unnatural, abhorrent, detestable and it brings
confusion and every evil work.
Deut. 22:20-21; Num.
5:27 - Adulterous women loose demons of adultery on
their children along with all the shame, insecurity,
hurt, sickness, and the tendency to be a victim, etc.
Deut. 22:22-27; Lev.
20:10 - Adulterous men loose demons of adultery on
their children the same as women along with the
tendency to be cruel.
Deut. 23:2 -
Creating a bastard looses demons to lead your children
away from God, to cause trouble between family members
and create more bastards.
Deut. 23:3 - Having
incestuous relationships looses demons to cause all
that is in the bastard curse, and also hardness, hate
,insanity and deformity, confusion, perverse and
defilement.
Deut. 27:21, Lev.
18:23 - Sex with beasts creates a very degenerate
mind, physical deformities and is a form of Satan
worship. Satan hates us and wants to make us lower
than the animals. Some families have animal physical
features. When questioned once about club feet, one
demon said he was there because a great grandfather
had sex with horses. It is confusion, perverse and
degradingly carnal.
If you have ever
said something like this, It isn't anyone's business
what I do, I'm not hurting anyone but myself. Think
how you will answer God. Think how you will feel as
you watch the payoff from Satan to your descendents.
I have begun to
suspect that any sexual activity that is contrary to
God's Law will bring curses for some number of
generations. Read Rev. 21:8. We must overcome these
things before we finish this life. If you once
transgress the realm of proper sex according to God,
you have softened your resistance to improper sex.
How can you tell if
you have a demon in this area? You may not have a
demon if you are mildly enticed to sexual fantasy or
sexual activity and you do not attempt to carry the
fantasy out. You may be plagued by demons from past
generations whose job it is to continually harass you
until you give in enough for them to get control over
you in this area. You do have one or more demons if
the pressure mounts and you find it very difficult or
impossible to resist the temptation. Demons exert
pressure (a lot of pressure = a lot of demons).
ACTIONS AND
RESULTS - If you had sex before marriage,
even with your future mate, you committed fornication.
If you then married your sexual partner, your marriage
and all your children were cursed. You have loosed
demons to pressure all your children to this sin and
to greater sexual sin.
If you conceived a
child before marriage, you conceived a bastard. If you
conceived a bastard child, you cursed your descendents
for ten Bible generations (400 years). The descendents
will tend to conceive bastards generation after
generation.
If you fornicated
before marriage, you are likely to commit adultery
after marriage. If you had sex before marriage, you
set a pattern for your children to commit fornication.
Like father - like son; like mother - like daughter.
The sins that the parents commit will tend to be
repeated by the children and their descendents. Sexual
sins of the pastor will also tend to be repeated in
his congregation; he looses sexual demons to rule over
the church.
Jezebelic mothers
and Ahab fathers will raise children who may become
masculine women and effeminate men. Homosexuality and
lesbianism can be caused by parents not setting the
proper example in the home. Man is head of home; woman
submits to man in divine order. Man is to love the
wife as Christ loved the church. Many women do not
submit properly to their husbands because the husband
does not properly love the wife and submit properly to
God. When men show harshness, lack of concern, do not
value and are unkind to the wife, she will not only
loose respect for him but will not trust his
leadership.
Pornography can come
into the home through television, radio or the printed
word. Seeing, listening or reading pornography will
cause the person to want to repeat these acts. Once
seen, these scenes are extremely hard to wipe out of
the mind.
Incest or rape by
your relatives destroys the natural sex life with your
mate. Rape can cause harlotry or frigidity; it
produces hate, distrust and hardness.
Occult sex or sex
orgies cause a person to become very demonized. Demons
of succubus and incubus lead to depravity. Exposure
and unclean sex loose sensual appetites and lewd
emotions.
Bestiality can lead
to horrible offspring. You may even create a type of
demonic tie with that animal.
AIDS is a curse from
God on those who practice homosexuality and
fornication. It will become a terrible plague in our
country. If you remain sexually pure, depend on God to
protect you from AIDS.
We know a single man
who went six years without a wet dream or
masturbating. Satan even sent three beautiful demons
of succubi to trap him; he didn't fall for the trap.
It is better to let your body have a wet dream than to
masturbate.
A soul tie is formed
with all sexual partners, even with the same sex
through homosexuality and lesbianism.
The only way the
above patterns can be stopped is to practice
deliverance: confession of sins, breaking curses and
soul ties, casting out demons, and living a scriptural
disciplined life. Then the descendent will be free to
make their own choice.
You should enjoy the
sexual affections of your mate. The bed is holy and
undefiled. Your body belongs to your mate. Intercourse
is the only Godly form of sex. Sexual deviation such
as oral sex and anal sex with your mate is demonic.
DEMONS THAT
BREAK UP MARRIAGES - It is the duty of
marriage breaking spirits to work in the husband and
wife. One strong one is lust. In our society men have
been programmed to lust for and not truly love the
wife. When a man uses this tactic on the wife, her ego
is wounded. Because lust is seeking only it's own
gratification, the wife will feel used or violated,
which leaves her feeling degraded. The person who is
the object of lust will often become repulsed at
having sexual contact with the spouse.
Lust, instead of
love, often causes the wife to use sex as a bargaining
device. This happens because the wife knows she is not
being loved, just used as a prostitute, so she uses
the person who has used her. When a woman uses these
tactics on the man, his ego is wounded. As you can
see, this is a satanic game which continues the
rejection process until there is only hate left. Woe
to the men and women who get caught in this trap and
never get out; woe to the children so educated about
love, sex and marriage. Thus the true meaning of the
sex act and the satisfaction it should bring can
easily be destroyed for the couple (Titus 2:3-5).
Just a question to
the older women. Are you qualified to teach younger
women how to love their husbands and children (Titus
2:3-5)? By your own life you do teach.
One of the most
urgent needs of the American husband is to learn what
God means when He says a man should love his wife. He
will learn to control his sexual desires, and consider
the wife's needs and condition as well as his own.
Due to the wide
spread of pornographic material, many men force their
wives into oral, anal and other sexual perversions,
often leading the wife into deviate sex.
Fear of
homosexuality is great among American men. A large
number of men have had minor or major contact with
homosexuality as young boys. Young boys often get
their hands on pornographic material by accident and
follow its instructions. Here are some common traits
in husbands who have had some homosexual contact. When
he marries, he will not see the need to provide
financially or spiritually for the wife and children.
He often hates the wife and children, and feels they
hamper him. He does not understand his responsibility
for the family, neither does he care. He usually will
not hold a steady job. They are all laden with fear
which torments them. Oral Sex is a powerful spirit and
will not give up easily. They reside in the mouth,
lips, tongue, taste buds, throat, sex organs and the
mind. There must be sincere repentance followed by
determined discipline. We have seen men recover from
this spirit's control. Many young children are forced
into oral sex by some one they trust or are kin to.
Even though they hate it, they cannot stop the demon's
demand for it and will often continue to seek it even
when no one forces them.
PREACHERS
AND SEX SCANDALS - We have all watched and
been greatly shaken when preachers and Christian
leaders we have respected reach their goals and have a
ministry that is successful, fall into sexual sin
destroying all they have accomplished as well as many
young Christians. The Bible gives us the order in
which we should grow: (1) Salvation, (2) Casting out
demons, (3) Baptism in Holy Spirit, (4) Safety in
accidents and (5) Healing. Many pastors and Christian
leaders have never been delivered of evil spirits.
Because of their resistance to the demons, the demons
just play a waiting game. They may even help the man
succeed, knowing their success in causing the man's
fall is sure, they just act like they are gone (Mark
16:16-19). The demons watch as they go around in the
man for just the right time, place and person to catch
him. They will never strike too soon. Had this man
been delivered and understood the attempts of demons
to re-enter, he would have had a chance against the
fall. We know a pastor who says "If you let the Devil
ride, he's going to drive." Sex, power, and money are
three main destroyers of man. If you let any of these
control you, it can destroy you.
INCUBUS AND
SUCCUBUS - Those attacking females are
called incubus and those concentrating on males are
called the succubus. These are vicious sexual spirits
which can molest and torment susceptible individuals.
Most attacks are at night and the person its awakened
by fondling hands, caressing hot lips and tongue, and
other forms of lust inducing stimulation. Every kind
of abnormal and deviate sexual experience can be
generated by these spirits.
These demons cruelly
torment their victims to satisfy their filthy
cravings. Some people have told us that they get to
the point they are afraid to go to sleep at night.
Their days are filled with shame and they feel
everyone knows what they do. They have no hope of
escape. Many consider suicide and a good number carry
it out. Some of these demons have been loosed on these
helpless people by curses from their ancestors, and
some by their own sins.
INORDINATE
AFFECTIONS WITH OTHERS - Inordinate -
disorderly, unregulated; exceeding reasonable limits,
immoderate, excessive. After we accept Christ as
Savior, we need to carefully consider our former
relationships with people. Any wrong activities,
actions, thoughts, desires, and attitudes should be
confessed as sin and never be engaged in again. We
need to recognize the cleansing and forgiveness
provided by Jesus Christ (I John 1:9).
Inordinate
affections include unnaturally close friendships
involving affections, heterosexual or homosexual
contacts, and fellowship in other sinful practices.
This will include all blood covenants.
We know that before
salvation we knew people in a purely human way (II
Cor. 5:16). After salvation, all of our relationships
need to be examined to make sure none of them are in
violation of God's Word. Since the fleshly or carnal
mind is enmity with God; not subject to, nor can it
ever be subject to God (Rom. 8:7), we must be careful
what we subject it to. Remember, evil companionships,
communion and associations corrupt and deprave good
manners, morals and character (I Cor. 15:33-34). If
any man be in Christ, he is a new creature; old things
are passed away, behold all things are become new (II
Cor. 5:17).
Prayer - Pray this
or a similar prayer to break ungodly connections with
the past (pray out loud for more power and authority):
Satan, in the name of Jesus, I come against the demon
authorities who controlled and motivated my
relationship with (friend's name) and break your power
and authority over my life and affections, especially
as related to him/her. By the blood of the Lord Jesus
Christ, I remove myself from any authority you ever
exercised over me. I renounce all such ties of
affection and ask that the Lord Jesus help me to love
him/her only with His agape love, 'in the bowels
(affections) of Jesus Christ'. I give my affections
(desire) completely to the Lord Jesus Christ for His
use. Amen.
After you have
prayed this prayer and accepted the cleansing of
Jesus, you may find it better to stay away from these
friends long enough to become spiritually stable
yourself (II Cor. 6:17).
If your former
friend will not come to Christ for salvation and
cleansing, then part company with them. You can ask
God to bring that person across your path when you are
stronger spiritually, and when they have been drawn
and convicted by the Holy Spirit.
You will need to
renounce all pacts, covenants, promises and other
binding allegiances to former friends in the world,
and break all curses which may have been incurred by
such relationships or agreements.
Prayer - Pray this
prayer (pray out loud for more spiritual authority):
Since I have confessed my former relationship with
(name) as sin and the sinful practices that were
involved, I now break any curses which have come to me
as a result of this association. According to Gal.
3:13, Jesus became a curse for me on the cross and
blotted out the handwriting of ordinances which were
against me. In the name of Jesus, I take authority
over every demon who has inhabited my mind, will,
emotions, body or spirit because of any friendship
outside of Jesus Christ. I have confessed these
relationships (with their activities, thoughts,
desires and attitudes) as sin. I now command all
demons associated with these relationships to leave me
now in Jesus' name. Amen.
I now follow Rom.
12:1, and present all my members and faculties to God.
I desire to be well pleasing to God. Carefully begin
to make new friendships only in Jesus Christ which
will be based on true love as outlined in I Cor. 13.
Continually renew
your emotions and mind in scripture, praise, spiritual
songs, and pure and wholesome thoughts (Eph. 5:19, 26;
Psalm 34:1; Phil. 4:8). Fix your mind on things
outlined in Phil. 4:8. This suggests we may need to
use force on our minds. Think about and tell the
demons about Jesus' love for you, His last supper, His
submission in the garden, His death, His resurrection,
His ascension and His priesthood - all for you. It
makes the demons recede when you force your mind to
think about the love Jesus Christ has for you and to
remember that they have no chance for salvation. In I
Thes. 5:18 we are told to thank God in everything. If
you are busy thanking God for all He does for you, you
cannot be depressed. Pray with the understanding and
in the Spirit (Jude 20; I Cor. 14:4). Memorizing and
singing scripture can be an invaluable aid (I John
2:14).
Thankfully and
joyfully fill your days with good hard work (I Thes.
4:11). See Luke 16:10-12 and learn to take
responsibility for your small earthly duties so that
you can be trusted in much. Serve in the church and
fellowship with Christian companions (Heb. 10:25).
Since bad music is
often associated with bad relationships, renounce and
destroy all rock, country, blue grass, melancholy and
sensual music. Especially shun music which brings
remembrance of former sinful activities and friends.
Have the one working with you call out names of
artists and types of music as names of demons.
SUBLIMINAL
ADVERTISING IN WHAT YOU SEE AND READ - What
would have seemed impossible thirty years ago has come
to pass, you can receive a message to your mind and
never see the message with your conscious mind or
physical eyes. This is a subliminal message. We were
given a book about subliminal messages. In one ad,
very cleverly concealed in the ice cubes, was a woman
in a sexual pose with an animal. Although you probably
would not see it with your eyes, unconsciously you
would get the message: drink - sex - bestiality.
We must guard good
moral values. If we are weak in our convictions, our
moral values can be changed subliminally by suggestion
in rock music, TV, radio, newspapers, magazines,
posters, billboards, etc.
One form of
subliminal message is the sub-audio suggestions on
rock records saying: Communism is the perfect form of
government; hate your parents; you are no good; commit
suicide; kill others: take drugs; they taste good;
your parents hate you; police are pigs; and the whole
world is crooked.
If we as Christians
do not to cultivate the Word of God, accept its values
and be taught of the Holy Spirit, our spiritual fences
will not be up and intact when the enemy attacks. We
have adequate protection but it is not automatic.
Hosea 4:6 says we
are destroyed for lack of knowledge of the Law of God.
Those who do not take time to learn what is righteous
in the sight of God will be swept along to destruction
which is Satan's plan for you (Eph. 2:1-2).
THE SINGLE
MALE - Because the sex drive is second
strongest in the body, it is something with which you
will always have to live. Because humans are able to
become parents long before they are mature enough to
assume the duties and the responsibilities of
parenthood, there has to be a wise reason in God's
time table in this. Could it be that God has given
young men and young ladies this problem to teach
self-control. James 1:2-4 points out that trials bring
endurance and steadfastness. Let endurance,
steadfastness and patience have full play and do a
thorough work, so that you may be fully developed,
lacking nothing.
It is the desire of
Satan to have you laden down by guilt, curses and sin
before you mature enough to form a family. You
automatically get demons and curses when you are not
chaste: for incest - ten generations; for creating a
bastard - ten generations; for being a father to a
baby aborted - the curses for shedding innocent blood
and murder indirectly, adultery, whore monger and
failing to provide for your offspring, just to name a
few.
In marriage there
are times when abstinence and continence must be
practiced. During the menstrual cycle, periods of
geographical separation from the wife and during
pregnancy, sexual relations are either undesirable or
unwise.
The basic need is to
bring the sex drive under control. Learn to avoid
sexual impurity and the debilitating guilt which
follows such involvement's. Satan urges a man to
involve himself in sexual activity without regard for
his physical or mental health and by this prove his
manhood.
He only proves he
has the equipment, that it works and he just fell for
one of Satan's big ones. He has just laid curses on
himself, his wife, his marriage, all his sons and
daughters, and several generations of descendents. He
has loosed sexual demons to harass and torment them,
and he may have gotten a sexually transmitted disease
for himself and his descendents.
Satan uses the sex
drive to trap all people but even more so the
Christians. Masturbation is a form of self-indulgence
and self-love, strictly a selfish pleasure. It
produces shame, doubt, condemnation and failure.
Satan's lie is that it does not involve anyone else,
so it is all right.
The more times a man
has engaged in sexual activity in the past, whether it
was masturbation, heterosexual or homosexual
activities, the more difficulties he will have in
breaking these practices. Being as persistent to
resist the demons as the demons are persistent against
you will put you in proper submission to God and the
Devil will flee. Read James 4:5-8.
The morning erection
is caused by the need to urinate; the erection then
leaves and the penis goes back to normal. Arousal can
be caused by other reasons such as pornography,
watching women, tight clothing, etc.; the penis may
then achieve a erection. If the man does not
masturbate, he will have a wet dream which will
relieve the pressure of the sperms.
There is no
condemnation for having a wet dream. You have
committed no sin because this is a natural function of
the body. Don't let Satan talk to you and get you to
masturbate.
When the demon
comes, he must be rebuked in Jesus' Name. Because
Satan is a liar, the person so attacked does not have
to agree with Satan's evaluation of himself. It is
time now for you to force your mind to think on what
you tell it to do.
Now a problem
arises. A man knows I Cor. 10:13, and understands all
the mechanics of physical sex pressure and even the
psychological warfare Satan wages to lead into sexual
sin, in spite of all this, he falls, by letting the
Devil goad him into masturbating. Before the act, the
demon pushed for it; now he begins to attack with
guilt thoughts, shame, giving up. After repenting
instead of giving up, show your thanks to God for His
forgiveness and cleansing. Forgive yourself. Get up
and go for success again (I John 1:9). Don't waste
time with vain recriminations over your failure. If
you continue you will succeed. The episode may have
opened your mind and body to sex spirits.
Prayer - Pray out
loud for more power and authority: Satan, I rebuke you
in Jesus' Name and command that every spirit of
masturbation, lewdness, uncleanness, adultery,
fornication, perversion, pornography, etc. leave me
now in the Name of Jesus Christ, Amen. Stop praying
and breathe slowly and deeply three or four times. Be
persistent, and repeat until they leave.
In the future avoid
the circumstances, contacts and actions which led up
to your failure. Begin new thought patterns at the
very onset of temptation. Usually the greatest
pressures come when you are alone. Study the Bible and
pray, do binding and loosing warfare, get plenty of
physical exercise, work hard at your job.
Find methods which
are helpful to you personally and use them to
reinforce your good resolutions. As Paul admonished
young Timothy, Keep thyself pure, and Flee youthful
lusts. (I Tim. 5:22; II Tim. 2:22; I Cor. 9:27).
THE SINGLE
FEMALE - Under the guise of female liberty,
the American woman has lost a lot. She has been told
she has sexual liberty and can, if she so desires,
pickup a man and have sex - no strings attached. While
this may sound very interesting, even exciting to
some, let's examine the results of such actions.
She is forming soul
ties with each man (I Cor. 6:15-16). This means that
she is attached in her soul to every man she has had
sex with; this tie will interfere with her total
relationship with her husband. Each man goes to bed
with her and her husband, and interferes with their
sex life. Because of attitudes which she has formed
about life, men and herself, she will usually not be
able to be happy even if she should marry a good man.
She may not be able to persistent in hard times.
She may get sexual
diseases for herself and even pass them on to her
children or they may kill her children. She may become
pregnant and bear a child; an act she did not even
consider at the time of the sex act. If she has an
abortion these curses will be upon her and also the
father (Ex. 21:12, Deut. 19:10, Pro. 6:17, Lev. 20:2).
She invites the
curse of the bastard upon herself and gives it to ten
generations of her descendents (Deut. 23:2). This
curse will follow her into a marriage and fall on all
of her children. Some of the attributes of this curse
are: family members do not get along, they do not feel
at home in the church, create more bastards, are cruel
and unkind.
She will not escape
the psychological and spiritual attacks of Satan
through curses and the demons. She suffers shame,
feelings of being degraded, maybe becomes truly
degraded, emotional illness torments her, feelings of
lose and dread follow her, she will feel fragmented
and loose the ability to trust herself, men and God.
Sexually transmitted diseases may not be curable.
After a time she will either loathe her life or go
beyond the point of having any desire to return to
God.
It is strange but in
my school classes very young children have a knowing
that it is wrong for mom or dad to associate in
intimate ways with someone not their mate. They know
this without ever having anyone tell them. This
knowing can be abused but cannot be denied and sooner
or later will convict the woman. In later life her
lose will become more evident to her and bring even
more grief or suicide. There is no sadder person than
the old woman who has been destroyed through unlawful
sexual activity, and has lost the respect and love of
her children and husband .
Let's take a look at
the average young lady who has followed the so called
new liberty. This may surprise you; she is generally
in her early to mid- twenties. This is very young to
have ruined your life and maybe your children's lives.
She has usually been married, may have a child, has
become envious of others, is unthankful, considers her
life boring, over or to much for her, and she would
like to live in a fantasy world. The pasture looks
brighter out there. She divorces her mate or just
leaves. Next step is the job market; there she finds
sexual favors will get what she thinks she wants, but
again she is cheated. Now she is often alone because
the courts will give the children to the husband if
she is not a fit parent. She finds that men talk sweet
and walk out fast.
After all this, a
few come to their senses and repent in true
repentance. They get saved and begin to change their
life, but the demons they have collected will not
leave them alone and exert pressure to return to the
old life. If she holds out and comes to Jesus Christ
for deliverance, she will still have to be diligent in
her resistance to immorality if she is to regain her
life. If she does not hear of nor get deliverance, the
chances are very great she will go back to the old
life.
We have seen that
those getting deliverance and teaching about how to
win over Satan and the demons can persevere and
recover almost or all that they have lost. We've seen
many return to their homes and families and make
beautiful Christian wives and mothers. We have seen
sexual diseases cured, and mental and physical health
restored. This is the reward we get which keeps us
filled with desire to see everyone win over Satan.
I urge all young
ladies to treasure what God has given. Don't fall for
Satan's lie and become polluted, filled with demons
and laden with guilt. Get yourself delivered from the
curses that have been handed to you by your ancestors
and enjoy a clean life with God .
There is one young
man in the Bible that I feel is smarter even than
Solomon. He is in I Chron. 3:9-10. He cried out to God
that he be kept from evil so that he would not be hurt
by it. The request must have pleased God for it says
He granted him his request.
As you can see,
there are curses, pain and punishment for all who
transgress God's laws on sex. When you think you have
succeeded in hiding it, guess who saw you. When you
think you got away scot free, wait a few years and you
will see. When you are tempted to think you have hurt
no one but yourself, see what happens to your
children. If this has been your life or if you are
beginning to think that a life of sexual promiscuity
would be fun, see now that the price is too great.
Prayer - Pray, out
loud, putting all your guilt before God: Father in
Heaven I now recognize my sin or sins and I ask for
the cleansing power of Jesus Christ's blood to cleanse
all of these sins. I forgive all ancestors who have
cursed me by their sexual sins. I ask that my
descendents will be able to forgive me for the curses
I have placed on them. Father, I ask you to forgive me
for not protecting those you entrusted to my care. I
now break all soul ties with every man or woman (name
each one to God) that I have ever had any sexual
relations with. I ask that you completely sever all
these ties. I forgive all who have hurt me in any way.
I ask you to forgive me for having unforgiveness in my
heart for others. I ask you to send health and healing
to my body and soul. Lord, please begin a restoration
of our family and please begin with me. Lord I am so
thankful you have provided a way for me to be
forgiven. I turn from my sins and follow you. I ask
these things in Jesus Christ's name. Amen.
SEX
PERVERSION - In Unger's Bible Dictionary
under False Gods you can get an education on the gods
that Israel worshiped. In this study you will discover
that illegal sexual activity was, in fact, worship of
that god. Perhaps that is why there is such an
increase in sexual perversion. Satan is trying to
restore worship of these gods knowing that most people
do not know they are performing an act of worship when
they do sexually perverted things.
In Romans 13:12 and
in Ephesians 5:11 we are commanded to have nothing to
do with the unfruitful works of darkness. Ancient
cults and their activities are becoming popular in our
land today.
Romans 6:16 says
that to whomever we yield ourselves to obey that's
whose slave we become. In II Tim. 3:4-6 we learn that
treacherous, inflated with self- conceit, unscrupulous
men (lovers of sensual pleasures) acting like they are
true Christians worm their way into the homes of
silly, weak willed, spiritually dwarfed women and lead
them astray. We have observed that the purpose of all
this deceit is sexual activity.
Today most people
seem unaware of or are indifferent to the condemnation
in God's Word against all sexual perversions. In the
first chapter of Romans we can follow the descent of
man into depravity. First the position of God is
reduced to the position of the creation. At this
point, a man's heart is filled with vain imaginations
and he becomes deceived. His worship is centered upon
graven images (Ex. 20:4). The images are in descending
order. First worshipped is the likenesses of men (we
are into body worship today), then his gods become
lower creatures like birds, next four-footed beasts,
and finally creeping things. For this rebellion, the
Lord gives them up to illicit sex between men and
women, thus destroying the marriage relationship and
undermining the family. The next step down is
homosexuality and perversion, again practiced in
worship of the "gods" set up by foolish and blinded
men. See Unger's Bible Dictionary, pages 411-418.
Fornication is the
word which covers all unlawful sexual acts. In the
Scriptures - incest, adultery and idolatrous sex
orgies are all called fornication (Matt. 5:32; I Cor.
5:1 & 10:5-8; Ex. 32:1-25). Adultery is voluntary
sexual intercourse between a married person and
someone who is not their legitimate mate. Effeminate
refers to a homosexual man, a catamite (I Cor. 6:9).
Abusers of themselves with mankind (I Cor. 6:9) is the
Greek word arsenokoites or sodomite; one guilty of
unnatural offenses, one who practices sodomy. I Kings
11 tells us that Solomon worshiped at the Ashtoreth.
Many Christian
married couples use Heb. 13:4 as an excuse to practice
sodomy. They believe they can have perverted sex just
because they are married. They are in deep deception.
Let us consider
these translations: Let marriage be held in honor
among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for
fornicators and adulterers God will judge (New
American Standard). Let marriage be held in honor -
esteemed worthy, precious, (that is,) of great price
and especially dear - in all things. And let the
marriage bed be (kept undishonored,) undefiled; for
God will judge and punish the unchaste (all guilty of
sexual vice) and adulterous (Amplified). Marriage must
be held in honor by all, and the marriage relations
kept sacred. Persons who are sexually vicious and
immoral God will punish (Williams).
God has never and
will never agree with you that fornication, sodomy or
any type of uncleanness, in or out of marriage is
acceptable to Him. According to Pro. 23:7, as a man
thinketh in his heart so is he. Because we become what
we think about, Paul points out that we should think
on things that are honest, pure, lovely, virtuous, and
of good report (Phil. 4:8). In II Cor. 10:5, we are
told to cast down vain imaginations which would rear
up against the teachings of God and we are commanded
to bring every thought into captivity to Christ Jesus.
I Cor. 15:33-34 tells us not to be deceived or mislead
because evil companionships, (communion, associations)
corrupt and deprave good manners and morals and
character. We should be holy in all conversation as,
even as Christ is holy.
God has made a way
for us to escape from temptation but most of the time
we don't take it. There is a difference between
temptation and sin. Demons usually put thoughts of
sins in our head. To have the thought pass through
your head is not sin. To obey or continue the thoughts
and act on them is sin (I Cor. 10:13).
Sensual relates to
or consists in the gratification of the senses or the
indulgence of appetite; to be devoted to or
preoccupied with the senses or appetites; voluptuous;
deficient in moral, spiritual or intellectual
interests. Synonym - carnal; see Jude 18, 19. Evil
concupiscence is to desire ardently; strong desire
especially in the sexual area (Col. 3:5; I Thes. 4:5;
Rom. 7:8). Inordinate affection refers to that which
is unregulated, disorderly, exceeding reasonable
limits; immoderate; excessive (Col. 3:5).
Lasciviousness is the promoting or partaking of that
which tends to produce lewd emotions; anything which
fosters sexual sin and lustfulness. Today it seems
both men and women can dress and conduct themselves in
a lascivious manner. Christians should not do anything
in dress or conduct that would cause others to stumble
(II Cor. 12:21; Rom. 14:13; I Cor. 1:23; I John 2:10).
Filthy communication is derived from the Greek word
meaning useless, putrid, or obscene. Suggestive body
or eye movements, obscene jokes, pornographic books,
movies, pictures, rock music, profanity and blasphemy
all come under this classification (Eph. 4:29; Col.
3:8).
In the bonds of holy
matrimony, sexual intercourse is not an evil thing.
Couples find a closeness, joy and blessing impossible
to attain by any other means.
If you are unable to
stop filthy memories, words or voices coming into your
mind; if you are constantly undressing others with
your eyes, and lewd and evil thoughts constantly flood
your mind; if you are a masturbator, fornicator,
homosexual or lesbian; then you are most probably host
to evil spirits.
PRAYER
- Here is a prayer which has helped many to untangle
the bondage and break free (pray out loud for more
spiritual power): Lord Jesus, I bring before you all
my sexual sins (by name); I renounce them all and I am
sorry for participation's in them. I do now repent and
ask forgiveness for them all. I now break in the name
of the Lord Jesus the hold these sins have had on me.
I also break all soul ties between me and every person
(name each person).In Joel I am told that those who
call on the name of the Lord shall be delivered. In
particular I confess the following: all preoccupation
with the sensual desire and appetites, and indulgences
of them; all longing and ardent desire for what is
forbidden; all inordinate affection, all unnatural and
unrestrained passions and lusts; all promoting or
partaking of that which tends to produce lewd
emotions, and foster sexual sin and lust. I further
confess all filthy communication: obscene and filthy
language, conversation and jokes; lewd and obscene
music, poetry, literature and art; all pornography;
all acts of sodomy, adultery, immorality, fornication,
masturbation, oral sex, effeminacy and homosexuality;
also all affection for and attachment to philosophies,
religions, and life styles which glorify, promote and
condone sexual conduct in thought, word and deed
contrary to the standard for believers in the Bible.
I further renounce
the expression of these philosophies, religions and
life styles in art, literature, mass media, and public
practices and attitudes. Lord, I ask that Your Spirit
reveal other sexual offenses in my life that I have
committed.
Father, I confess
and renounce all occult involvement, both known and
unknown, by me or my ancestors. I hate Satan, his
demons, and all his works; I count all that offends
you, Father, as my enemy.
Lord I ask you to
cleanse, heal and deliver me. I thank you for
forgiving my sin and cleansing me from all
unrighteousness. I also now break all curses (here
break all curses known to you and ask God to reveal
any others) I have brought upon myself and my
children, and I break all those I inherited in the
name of Jesus Christ, God's Son. I do now claim and
accept your forgiveness and cleansing.
Satan, I have
confessed my sins, and broken all soul ties and curses
in name of Jesus, and I rebuke you in the name of
Jesus Christ my Saviour. I am reclaiming every area of
my mind and body which I formerly gave to you and your
demons. I claim freedom and cleansing in the areas of
sexual sin, and I renounce you and your hosts, and
command that they leave me now in the name of Jesus
Christ.
I now reclaim all
ground that I have ever given to Satan in body, mind,
soul, or spirit. I dedicate all of my life to you Dear
Lord, to be used by You. I ask You to empower every
area of my life, so that in the future they might be
used in service to You. Amen.
Note: Another
related prayer is found in Effeminacy - Sins of Sodom.
It is always good to lead the group or the person
being delivered through basic deliverance: Rejection,
Bitterness, and Rebellion. Break all Biblical curses
relating to sexual impurity and all ungodly soul ties
with any person they have had sex with including any
animals.
LIST OF
SEXUAL DEMONS TO CAST OUT IN THE NAME OF JESUS
Curses - Soul Ties -
Fragmented Soul
Unnaturally Close
Friendships, Blood Covenants
Pacts, Covenants,
Promises, Allegiances
Sins
Fornication
Adultery
Masculine Women,
Lesbianism
Effeminate Men,
Homosexuality, Sodomy, Catamite
Abusers of
themselves with mankind (Arsenokoites
and Sodomites; Oral
and Anal Sex)
Sensual (Carnal and
Voluptuous Senses and Appetites)
Evil Concupiscence
Inordinate
Affections (Excessive, Disorderly,
Unregulated,
Immoderate)
Lasciviousness,
Lewdness (Lewd Emotions)
Filthy Language
(Obscenity, Blasphemy, Profanity)
Masturbation
Abortion, Murder,
Killing
Ahab, Jezebel
Exposure
Uncleanness
Perversion, Pride,
Ego, Vanity
Lust and Passions,
Fantasy Lust, Self Conceit, Lovers of Pleasure
Sexual Fantasies and
Activities, Flirting
Obscene Music,
Poetry, Masochism
Literature and Art,
Nymphomania
Occult Sex, Sex
Orgies, Succubus, Incubus
Immorality,
Oversexed, Undersexed
Incest, Bastard,
Prostitution, Harlotry, Whore
Rape, Fondling,
Voyeurism
Bad Dreams,
Bestiality
Heterosexuality,
Deviation, Depravity
Frigidity,
Impotence,
Pornography,
Child Pornography,
X-Rated Movies, Obscene Jokes
Playboy Channel,
Porno Pictures, Porno Books
Diseases,
Venereal Diseases,
Insanity, Endocarditis
Gonorrhea,
Staggering Gait, Weil's Disease
Chancroid (Soft),
Heart Disease, Sterility
Granuloma Inguinal,
Blindness, Herpes I and II
Spirochetal
Infections, Ulcerative Lesions
Syphilis, Yaws,
Injuries
Congenital Syphilis,
Bejel, Mumps
Gonorrheal
Arthritis, Pinta, Diseases
Venereal
Lympogranuloma, Relapsing Fever, Accidents
AIDS, Tropical
Ulcer, Structural Damage
Meningitis, Rat-Bite
Fever, Deformities
Sicknesses,
General
Rejection,
Bitterness, Rebellion, Unforgiveness
Shame, Insecurity,
Hurt, Victim, Suicide, Debilitating Guilt
Cruelty, Hardness,
Hate, Harshness, Unscrupulous
Insanity, Degenerate
Mind, Carnal Mind
Satan Worship,
Idolatry, Worship of Sex
Distrust, Lost
Respect for Mate, Deceit
Indisciplined, Self
Gratification
Enmity Towards God,
Works of Darkness, Mockery
Divers Lusts, Lusts
of Eyes, Lusts of Flesh
Spiritually Dwarfed
Manhood and Womanhood
Defiled, Degraded,
Violated
Sexual Bargaining,
Married Prostitute and Pimp
Fear of
Homosexuality and Lesbianism
Love of Sex, Power
and Money
Sexual Molestation,
Child and Adult
Fondling Hands,
Caressing Hot Lips
Abnormal and Deviate
Sex and Impurities
Depraved Manners,
Morals and Character
Sensual Music: Rock,
Country, Blue Grass, Melancholy
Subliminal Messages,
Subaudio Suggestions
Alcohol and Drugs
Ignorance,
Irresponsibility, Boredom
Doubt, Condemnation,
Pressure
Lewdness,
Uncleanness, Sexual Liberty, Lustfulness
Whore, Prostitute,
Harlot, Sex Slave
Enviousness,
Jealousy, Cheating
Vain Imaginations,
Deficient Thinking
Evil Companionship
and Conversation
Useless, Putrid
Unrestrained
Passions and Lusts
Sensual Art,
Literature and Mass Media
Lack of Concern,
Indifference
Note - The above
list is the main one for deliverance from sexual sins.
Other related lists may be found in Effeminacy - Sins
of Sodom, Rape, Sexual Harrassment - Abuse - Assault -
Violence, and Deliverance for the Subconscious Mind.